The Nearest Thing to Heaven is a Child

June 30th, 2008

What a bundle of joy! Our baby all swaddled up is a marvelous sight. Holding him is a highlight of my day. When his little head is cradled in my hands and I stare into his eyes I wonder how anyone could regard a newborn as anything other than the most precious, amazing wonder in God’s world.

Spend some time around kids and you’ll be surrounded by unlimited potential…you’ll revert to fun as a default mode…you might even remember dance steps only kids know, the healing power of a good belly laugh, and how to make believe. A line from an old song by the Oak Ridge Boys (“Thank God For Kids”) says it all: “The nearest thing to heaven is a child.”

The Bible says, “Behold [a word that signals us to pay attention to the truth that follows], children are a heritage [a gift] of the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). I pray that by the Lord’s providence our newest little baby will grow up to affirm with the psalmist, “You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; wonderful are Your works, and my soul knows it very well” (Psalm 139:13-14).

How can you show your love for a child today? A hug, a walk in the park, a bedtime story, getting down with them in the middle of the floor to play, nightly prayers, having a catch…there are a thousand ways you can spend some time with a child. Your love can make more of a difference than you can possibly imagine.

Do you want to lead them to know the God who gave them to you? Taking them to Bible class and worship consistently will help you give them something that will last a lifetime and beyond! As you grow spiritually, you’ll show them how to grow.

God entrusts them into our homes and into our hands for such a short time. Children mean the world to God. What can you do to show them—and the God who gave them to you—that they mean the world…to you?

Bundle of Joy

June 25th, 2008

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Warren Baldwin: Wednesday Night Summer Series at Lakehoma Church of Christ

June 25th, 2008

Tonight our church family will enjoy a meal together at 6:00 and then a time of praise and Bible study at 7:00. If you would like to hear a recent 4-minute radio message by our speaker for tonight, you can find it at the link below.

Our speaker is Warren Baldwin from Ulysses, KS. Warren is a graduate of FHU (1980) and HUGSR (1987). He has preached for churches in Tennessee, Florida, Wyoming and has been in Ulysses for 8 years. He also serves as adjunct faculty for Seward County Community College in Bible, Philosophy, and History. I believe he also is in the adjunct system for Harding University.

Warren has been married to his wife Cheryl for 26 years and their children are Wes, Jenny, and Kristin.

Warren Baldwin family

His lesson title for tonight is “Nothing to Feel Guilty About” from Psalm 103.

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Enoch!

June 15th, 2008

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Genesis 5:21-24 When Enoch was 65 years old, he became the father of Methuselah. 22 After the birth of Methuselah, Enoch lived in close fellowship with God for another 300 years, and he had other sons and daughters. 23 Enoch lived 365 years, 24 walking in close fellowship with God. Then one day he disappeared, because God took him.

Hebrews 11:5-6  It was by faith that Enoch was taken up to heaven without dying—“he disappeared, because God took him.” For before he was taken up, he was known as a person who pleased God. 6 And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him.

Danny Holman, My Favorite Blogging Preacher Jockey!

June 9th, 2008

Welcome to blogging, Danny! I’m a little late with the welcome, but better late than never…

Danny let the cat out of the bag about his days as a jockey, so I feel I have the green light to call him my favorite blogging preacher jockey.  He doesn’t do any serious riding anymore as far as I know, but he is still blogging and preaching.

I enjoy Danny’s writing. He always has a fresh take on things. He reads deeply and is a good thinker. Danny Holman, out of his jockey uniform

Check him out!

The Tidal Wave of Grief

May 30th, 2008

When I hear of someone who has been knocked flat by the tidal wave of grief, I feel disoriented. Recently I had a voice-mail from Richard May on my phone telling me about the tragic death of John Robert Dobbs, son of John and Maggy Dobbs. I sank to my knees and fell to my face on my office floor and began to pray. I could not get much out.

My wife and I have three boys and a child soon to be born. I could not imagine what John and Maggy are going through, but I hurt for them. I talked to God about how much joy I’ve experienced in my ministry move of last year, and how John and his family had also been enjoying a ministry move. And now the tidal wave of grief has engulfed them. To read tributes to their son, John Robert Dobbs, or to leave them a note, click here.

Yesterday I received another phone call. This one was from Tim Allison, a minister friend from Conway, AR, telling me about the death of Craig Mangrum. Craig was in his thirties. I was his preaching minister and friend for 8 years. He had just sent a note to a prayer list that read, “I know it’s been in the bulletin, but just as a reminder to everyone, about my back surgery on Wednesday morning. And also please keep Janine in everyone’s prayers too. She’s been worried about it just because she worries about me. So in a way, if it goes well, it will bring relief to both of us. Thanks so much!”

He had the surgery on Wednesday. He wasn’t breathing when his wife went to wake him on Thursday.

I thought about the Dobbs family and Janine Mangrum off and on all day yesterday. I’d ask you to offer a prayer to our Father on their behalf. When grief has descended like a tidal wave, people need the prayers of those who know them best and those who love them from afar. They need the comfort and presence of the Lord.

Please pray for them today.

Quest at OC–Equipping the Local Church

May 21st, 2008

Quest  If you want the church you’re a part of to be a healthy, working church, check out Quest.  The program was excellent last year (you can hear last year’s lessons online) and there is more of the same on tap for this year.

Some of the speakers: Harold Shank, Robert Oglesby, Cecil May, Howard Norton, Jeff Peterson, Anthony Wood, Sally Shank (Women’s Program: Renewing the Spirit, Refreshing the Soul), and several others.

Topics include:

  • What the Bible says about ministry in the city and to the poor
  • Strengthening the Marital Bond to Combat Infidelity
  • Leading a healthy way out of conflict
  • Strengthened by our Differences: Blending Generations in Ministry
  • Ministering to Families on the Verge
  • Changing the Culture to Listen More and Talk Less
  • Face your Fear and Stop Rewarding Difficult Behavior
  • Ministering to Stepfamilies
  • Latest and greatest in acoustic, software and equipment for ministry
  • Breathing Life into Worship
  • Healthy churches where God is at work
  • Recruiting volunteers like Jesus Did
  • Equipping Corinthians for Discipleship
  • Restoring Four Part Harmony in Worship
  • Leadership principles for getting the muddle out of meetings
  • Unresolved Conflict and the Propensity to Leave
  • From Maintenance to Mission: Becoming an Outward Focused Church

Iron & Whine

May 14th, 2008

I began lifting weights again yesterday morning. Chris King rallies the daily troops, so several of us were there, early in the morning burning calories and pumping iron. It was the first day of the rest of my life (which sounds a lot like Dante’s haunting entrance sign, “All hope abandon, ye who enter here”).

I did something this time that I should have done the other times I’ve started lifting again: I took it easy! I wasn’t lifting boxes of Kleenex (okay, they were boxes of Kleenex, but they were big, unopened boxes), but I wasn’t pumping 215 pounds on bench press either (my all time max). Instead, I just did some light cardio and eased back into lifting. I didn’t overdo it. Upside: I didn’t leave wondering if I’d be able to walk or move my arms the rest of the day! I just served notice to my body that more is coming and it’ll probably get worse…so get ready. In the short term, this leads to less soreness (and thus less whining).

The Proverbs say that “Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” (27:17). Sometimes we reach greater heights by matching wits with someone else, or perhaps we try to keep up with them in some other arena of life (even one as mundane as jogging or weight-lifting). We push each other, and that can be a very good thing.

It becomes a good metaphor for discipleship. Lifting or exercising in community builds in some encouragement and accountability (”Why didn’t you show up at the gym yesterday morning, Slacker!?”). If you’re among friends, you’ve got the help of a spotter if your strength starts to flag. When you succeed together, you can enjoy it together. It’s harder to quit when someone else hasn’t given up. Discipline is easier to learn when someone else is building endurance the same, painstaking way you are. Connecting the dots between The Life of faith and gym life is easy to do. I could sum it up with this: “Two are better than one…a cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart” (Eccl. 4:9a, 12b).

Ah, Memories

May 12th, 2008

The memories of my family outings are still a source of strength to me. I remember we’d all pile into the car - I forget what kind it was - and drive and drive. I’m not sure where we’d go, but I think there were some trees there. The smell of something was strong in the air as we played whatever sport we played. I remember a bigger, older guy we called ‘Dad.’ We’d eat some stuff, or not, and then I think we went home. I guess some things never leave you.  ~~Jack Handey

“14 Volumes of Barth on the wall, 14 volumes of Barth…”

May 7th, 2008

Altogether now–everybody sing! “Fourteen volumes of Barth on the wall…”

Karl Barth's Dogmatics

I was floored: the Lakehoma church and church shepherds presented me with this 14-volume set of Karl Barth’s Dogmatics.  I thought it would be years before I could buy this set, and now I am the proud owner of it.  It was a wonderful surprise. 

After worship this past Sunday morning, one of the shepherds called Rachel and me to the front and announced my graduation with my second masters’ and then gave me these books and my wife two-dozen roses and an assortment of mums in a beautiful vase!  Then Bob Gregg (he was the one who knew Barth would be the right choice) led a beautiful prayer and prayed that Lakehoma would be the church I retire from–coming from someone who spent 25 years in the pulpit here and who just went into semi-retirement, I’d say that was positive prayer-pressure if I’ve ever heard such! Then there was a surprise potluck in our honor! 

Very humbling.  Very appreciated.  It is truly a blessing to work here.  And it meant a lot to me that they honored Rachel with a gift also.  We are a ministry team, and yet churches typically do not value the preachers’ wife like they should.

I am making a commitment to read every page of this set–but I will definitely be taking the methodical, long-term approach to the project!  I predict a full decade to work through the 14 volumes.  I am thankful to be able to cross the floor of my study to pick up a volume and to be able to mark it up with reckless abandon!  It’s far superior to checking out a mark-me-not copy from a library. Looks good!

I look forward to the learning, and I’m grateful for those who provide the support that allows me to pursue spiritual growth and deeper understanding of the riches of the word of God.  As I am transformed, I have an opportunity to be an instrument of transformation.  All of that feeds the mission: seeing the face of God, leading my family to heaven so they can share that same experience of awe in the presence of God, and helping as many people as we possibly can to make the journey and reach that moment of discovery as well.

Fun at the 50th Grad Class of HUGSR

May 6th, 2008

Yes, it was a fun time.  Seth and I enjoyed our trek to Memphis and back.  I finally finished my second MA, this one in the Old Testament.  Here are some pictures from the 50th graduating class celebration.

Lendy, Sam, and me

Don Meredith, me, and Jack Lewis

Seth took this one of himself :-) The Dean and I

Dr. Oster and me Dr. McMillion & me

The Refreshing Breeze of Renewal

April 28th, 2008

I love the sense of renewal that I feel every day in this new chapter of my life. God has brought me into the clearing, and I love meeting the challenges of ministry as I see the open field in front of me and the possibilities for connecting with people in search of the God who is relentlessly seeking them. Multiple times through each week, I’ll find myself praising God for yet another blessing I can count in this season of our lives.

There are several things that contribute to the constant sense of joy I feel these days. The biggest one is the new church family I am a part of and the wonderful, partnering, prayerful leadership team that I joined when the Lakehoma shepherds asked me to be their preaching minister. Growing up as an EK (that’s elders’ kid to the uninitiated) and having been in full-time ministry for 15 years now, I have seen and worked with all kinds of elders and I can tell you that our church family is blessed with these five men. I look forward to getting together with them each time we meet. There is a pervasive sense of respect and appreciation for every other person in the room found in each heart when we get together. They are humble and yet they are not insecure about their role at the church. They do not feel a need to “compete” with me, nor I with them; instead, they contacted me a year ago to see if we might pursue ministry together because they have their job they are uniquely qualified to do and they wanted to talk to me about adding what Rachel and I can do through our ministry. It is a complementary, synergistic relationship that releases us to pursue our ministry with spiritual fervor. They are open to finding ways to be a blessing to the church family, in our community, and across the globe. They are under-shepherds of the Great Shepherd as I am a preacher on behalf of the one who once said “Let us go somewhere else to the towns nearby, so that I may preach there also; for that is what I came for” (Mark 1:38). We know we need each other, and that we each can contribute toward accomplishing God’s will in Mustang and beyond. I can’t remember a time when I’ve enjoyed ministry more.

Of course, there are also many people in Mustang (both in the church and outside the congregation) who have made this move a blessing. We have really enjoyed being a part of Life Groups every Sunday night. I love preaching on Sunday nights, but there is so much you can’t do in a large group that you can enjoy with a small, intimate group of believers and guests. The Life Group ministry here (based on Buddy Bell’s model) was begun with great care, prayer, and preparation. It was one of the strongest attractions for us as we considered this work. It has not disappointed–the Life Groups are flourishing and blessing more and more lives. Praise God!

Another great blessing is my relationship with the former preacher (of 25 years!), Bob Gregg. Bob and I are truly kindred spirits. We love each other and are thrilled to be working with each other. I began to believe God had providentially opened this door of ministry after spending a great deal of time on the phone and in person with the elders and from meeting and talking for the better part of a day with Bob. I have not been disappointed in the slightest. Instead, I have had it confirmed that God worked the way that only he can to answer their prayer of seeking their next preaching minister as well as our prayers as we considered embracing this ministry opportunity.

You just can’t beat God’s timing and God’s weaving of the tapestry. I am glad I stayed in Conway, AR for as long as I did, because there were relationships that deepened in the last year of being there. I was able to be around some people I came to love more deeply because we extended our ministry there. And by staying as long as we did (8 years), partnering with the Lakehoma church became a possibility for us. God’s love is amazing, and his timing is impeccable.

The church is blessed with a lot of folks who are actively taking part in the kingdom mission here (a few examples include the part-time and volunteer staff work done by our Children’s ministry coordinator and her husband, our youth ministry and education coordinators, the Life Group leaders and co-leaders, several deacons, the Day School workers, among many others). Some are helping the homeless in OKC; dozens of others are volunteering to help with the upcoming Camp KISMIF (Keep It Spiritual, Make It Fun), an outreach-oriented VBS-In-The-Park.

On the home front, Rachel and I are proud to be expecting a fourth child. All is going well with the pregnancy thus far. Every week we find a new blessing for our family in having come to the OKC area. The other day it was taking the boys to the park in Yukon (wow!). We feel the blessing when we’re pulling Matthew in the wagon down by the duck pond at the end of our street on a beautiful day. It’s found in a walk by Lake Hefner as the waves get whipped by the wind into the rocks. It’s in spending time with the new friends we are making here. It’s taking the boys down to Texas to see Papaw and Grandmama and Aunt Candace and Uncle Joe more often.

I could go on, but this has already become a thesis, so I’ll head toward home (I’m making up for lost blogging. I have been finishing up my 60-page guided research paper on The Akedah/the binding of Isaac in Genesis 22:1-19 lately. I mailed the final revision not too many days ago. I can’t tell you how nice it is to have my degree wrapped up). I’ll stop on this: Thank you, God. Thanks to everyone who has made/is making this a true time of Renewal in our lives!